4 Ways To Let Someone Know You Like Them Without Coming On Too Strong

Telling someone that you are interested in them romantically can be hard for many people, especially if they believe that doing so makes them vulnerable. Then, not only are we battling with the emotions raging inside us but also with the question of whether we should tell the person or not. Many people feel the desire to express their feelings, but are held back by the fear of coming on too strong. But no relationship moves forward if one is too shy or scared to communicate their thoughts. Which is why, here’s how you can go about telling someone you like them without coming on too strong.

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Speak well of them

Let the person know that you have good thoughts about them. Not only must you communicate what you like about them but also how great they make you feel. But don’t make up stuff and lie, and in no way should you make it sound like you are trying to flatter them. And definitely don’t do too much of it.

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Give them space but also have a presence

You don’t have to send them 20 texts a day for sure. A single text checking on them and how their day is going sounds good, and is mostly well received. Giving them their space is essential as is taking yours, but also be up for things when a comfortable plan comes up. Also, when you are with them, give them your full attention.

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Open up at the right time

Don’t be hasty when you decide to express your feelings. Take your time to get to know them. If you tell them that you are keen on them after only a short while of meeting them, chances are they will get freaked out.

Give them time

When you manage to let them know how you feel, give them time to figure out their feelings if they want it. You should be prepared for any possibility, but don’t push them for a response.