1. Identify the problem and involve your child in seeking a solution. In this way he will feel that you are both on the same side.

  2. If you want your child to do something, try to time your request so that it does not interrupt him while he is doing something else. This is one way of avoiding conflict.

  3. If your child is not very happy about change, give him adequate notice so that he knows what to expect and is willing to cooperate.

  4. Be assertive when asking your child to do something. You are not asking them for a favour. Also, make clear the consequences of non-compliance.

  5. Keep in mind that your requests should be reasonable. Praise your child when he is cooperative and well behaved.