It is always flattering when someone compliments you on your looks, intelligence or personality. Who doesn’t like getting attention from the opposite sex? But sometimes, there is more to these compliments than just a friendly remark - sometimes people showering attention and affection on us are actually interested in us romantically. And in our friendliness and warmth, we may lead them on - something which later causes hurt and regret on both ends. So to avoid leading someone who you aren’t interested in on, here are a few things to keep in mind.
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Don’t flirt
Approach the person like you would approach any other friend. If you border your interactions with them on flirting, innuendos, or romantic implications even a little bit, they might feel like you are interested in something more than friendship. Avoid a lot of physical touch, sitting too closely, and long hugs - absolute no-no!
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Be clear about your feelings
You can choose to clearly communicate that you are not interested in dating them if they make their desires known. Be honest, but try not being harsh. Treat them like you would want to be treated if you were in their shoes. But don’t sugar-coat anything you say either, being straightforward is essential.
Avoid meeting one on one
If you have been asked out by someone who you don’t want to lead on, try to convert the plan into a scene with other friends. You can in fact include other single friends in that group and introduce the two so that your disinterest becomes clear.
