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In their cluttered studio apartment in Astoria, Queens, after nearly 17 years of marriage, Shari Feldman and Inderjit Singh seem like a pair of old shoes -- a little the worse for wear but comfortable with each other's creases. "Our marriage certificate is so old, it's yellow," Ms. Feldman, 51, joked over the Bollywood soundtrack that blared from t...

In their cluttered studio apartment in Astoria, Queens, after nearly 17 years of marriage, Shari Feldman and Inderjit Singh seem like a pair of old shoes -- a little the worse for wear but comfortable with each other's creases. "Our marriage certificate is so old, it's yellow," Ms. Feldman, 51, joked over the Bollywood soundtrack that blared from t...