Addressing a press conference at his residence here, Mr Raj, the BJP's Dalit face, also warned that those who do not understand the aspirations of the community would face "consequences".
"The issues of the Scheduled Castes and Scheduled Tribes is being seen in the circumstances which have hardly any connect with the ground reality. The need of the hour is to address the aspirations and grievances of these communities," he said deploring the outlook of intelligentsia and other responsible sections vis-a-vis real issues of these communities.
He said on April 2, the way the Dalits and tribals expressed their anguish and feelings across the country made it very clear that the expectations and aspirations are different now.
"They did not express their anguish to ask the so-called upper castes, or those who are in a position to empower them, whether they would have meal together... Now we have to understand that their aspirations have become something else, and are not the same as in the 1980s or 1990s," the BJP MP said.
He said the community wants respect, jobs, rights and equality. "But attempts are being made to satisfy them by having food, night stay and tea with them."
Mr Raj said having food at a Dalit household was similar to a doctor giving medicines to treat fever to a patient who had a problem in his stomach.
Citing Congress President Rahul Gandhi as an example, Mr Raj, the national Chairman of the Confederation of Scheduled Castes and Scheduled Tribes Organizations, said that having meal in Dalit households neither empowers the Dalit families nor benefits the politicians.
Mr Raj said that the Dalits are apprehensive that the old system would come back again.
"The mood of Dalits has to be gauged as to why they are disillusioned with the system and continuous dilution of their rights and dignity at the hands of judiciary, executive, academia and the captains of economic pursuits," he said.
Mr Raj, however, welcomed the government's campaign that MPs and MLAs should go to Dalit-dominated villages and appraise them of the government schemes, adding that exclusion of the Dalit and tribal men and women from progress of the country would never lead to the progress of the country.
He also appealed to the government that the cases slapped on the Dalits for April 2 agitation over alleged dilution of SC/ST Atrocities Act should be withdrawn.
"When the lawsuits made during the Jat and Patel movement can be withdrawn, then the litigations raised on Dalits can also not be returned," he said.
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