Erin Raser The Washington Post

My "boyfriend" and I have been in a long-distance "relationship" for a year and a half. I use quotations because most of the time I don't feel like I have a boyfriend, and I question whether what we are doing is a relationship.

My "boyfriend" and I have been in a long-distance "relationship" for a year and a half. I use quotations because most of the time I don't feel like I have a boyfriend, and I question whether what we are doing is a relationship.