Contra-Dating: The New Dating Trend

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Dating trends are always changing. In 2024, 'Contra-dating' has become all the rage in the dating world

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Contra-dating refers to deliberately dating someone outside your usual type or who you wouldn't necessarily view as compatible

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It challenges the notion of having a specific ‘type' when seeking romantic connections, and encourages people to step outside their comfort zone

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The theory behind contra-dating is that your vision of a ''perfect partner'' could be holding you back from a healthy and lasting partnership

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Consistently seeking partners with the same physical attributes, personality traits or professional interests can restrict your dating pool

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However, it doesn't mean lowering your standards or compromising on your core values and needs

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It simply invites you to be more flexible in your more surface-level and superficial criteria

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For example, this could mean skipping the funny guy and going for someone more reserved instead

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The idea is to not to be afraid to give someone a chance just because you don't have all the conventional things in common

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You never know who you might click with until you give them a shot, so seek out those connections

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