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The Death of a Girl
Thursday November 12, 2009
Most people would think being a journalist is a privilege. I do too, but not always. There are times when you wish you didn't have to do what you are doing. Or wish you could at least dissociate from being clubbed with that all-encompassing label of belonging to the media. That's what my longtime associate (as husband and colleague) Sudhir was telling me after he got back from Hyderabad's Lal Bahadur Stadium last Wednesday.

We were presumably among the first to hear that morning that a young girl, not even 21, had died under suspicious circumstances inside her hostel room at the stadium. She had been a junior national boxing champion, bagged a silver medal at the Southern India Women Boxing Championship in 2004 and won a bronze at the Senior National Boxing Championship in 2006. That's what had brought her three years ago to the Centre of Excellence being run by the Sports Authority of Andhra Pradesh to nurture the best talent in the state.

Amaravathi's last supper had reportedly been biryani laced with poison. She was in shorts and a t-shirt and had apparently died, crouching in pain. Her hand outstretched, hanging by the bedside. Rigor mortis had set in, so she made a crooked, awkward sight even after she had been turned to lie face-up on the bed.

The cameras would not allow her dignity even in death. Even before she could be covered with a white cloth, the lensmen were in a hurry. They had to get the 'first' shots and put it out on air before anyone else. The more raw, the more shocking, the better the visuals. The minister concerned was quite willing to pose around the room, so all the channels could get adequate footage and no one would be left complaining.

Those who had managed the 'first' shots were directing those who arrived later in loud tones. 'Body upar hai, jaldi se shot le lo, nahin to cover kar denge aur mortuary le jayenge'. This within earshot of family members. I don't know if it has to do with the frequency of being faced with situations that makes us in the media sound so insensitive, or should I say terrible. This is not to point fingers but more for us to introspect as a clan.

The widowed mother, twin sister and brothers had come from Chintalbasti, a far from well-to-do area of the city. They were speaking to one channel after another. I don't know what must have been going through their mind. May be they were just overwhelmed by the turn of events. That's why they were mourning their personal loss in full public glare, before all the cameras. Did they realise all that they did and said was going to be beamed into homes across the country? May be they thought they would get some answers, may be they would get some help. Did they even have a choice?

We in the media do know that if the next 'bigger' newsbreak happens, the news will move on, the cameras will disappear and there would be no one to even listen to the family, their story, their tears.

The police said it was time to send the body for a post-mortem but the family members were missing. They had all been taken away or should I say 'hijacked' by different TV channels to be studio guests for live discussion on the tragedy and its ramifications and the questions it raises. This even as Amaravathi lay on the bed as lonely as she was in her last moments.

Most channels would argue that the death of the girl gave the media an opportunity to look at the stress to perform and to outperform others. Was it the inability to cope with setbacks or failure, the psychological pressures faced by a lonely girl, or was it a systemic failure to ensure there is an effective, functioning grievance redressal mechanism? What about the role of a coach, how far can she or he push when the criticism is always that the country has failed to produce medal winners? Valid. But does it have to be at the cost of compromising the dignity of a girl who has died a pathetic death?

It was only after several phone calls to different channels to 'release' the studio guests from the 'live' discussions and only after the minister had announced that five lakh rupees compensation would be paid to the family, that legally mandatory signatures and approvals from the family were got for sending the body for a post-mortem examination.

The point is not just about this case. What drove the girl to death, was she so driven to desperation and hopelessness that she poisoned herself to death? Those answers the police and the inquiry committee will hopefully give.

What is worrying is that after virtually every such human tragedy, the line of what is personal and what can be in the public domain is breached. More so if the 'subject' is from a less privileged section of society. Many call us vultures waiting for sensationalism, disaster. Carnivores waiting for prey, with our mikes and cameras, ready to pounce on unsuspecting and not-so-unsuspecting victims. At every seminar where media is the point of discussion, it evokes passionate discussion, not always of admiration. And it is not easy to defend ourselves.

There is no one to draw the lines. We, the 'independent and free' media, don't want anyone to draw the 'laxman rekha'' for us but we are apparently not willing to draw it ourselves either. The loss will not be just of those whose dignity is violated, but of a media that will, as an institution, lose its credibility and respect in the public arena. The sooner we hold a mirror to ourselves, the better.

Amaravathi was a headline for a day. The death of media ethics doesn't ever make it to the headlines. Because what the media does not acknowledge, does not exist. Or so we like to think. It's like the cat who closes its eyes while drinking the milk, so no one will see. How long will we refuse to see?
 
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Posted by jagan on Nov 16, 2009
that's tragic.. don't they have more sensitive issues like what kareena had for dinner last night and who deepika is dating with recently? or what Sachin utters from his mouth that hurts Balthackrey or how many dresses did Mr.Shivraj Patil change on 26/11? why do they degrade such a dignified profession with cheap journalism? there must be a regulatory board for all the TV channels like we have the censor board for cinemas.. we don't use our common sense and want someone else to dictate.. oh my poor fellow men! i pity myself and my country :(
 
Posted by Desi on Nov 14, 2009
At last some one had the guts & decency to talk the truth inspite of being 'in the clan' and that is you girl. thx
 
 
Posted by N Saravanan on Nov 14, 2009
Really a good article.... Now a days media persons are more interested to increase their TRP rating to attract Ad Companies.... So they forgot the value of that poor girl who lost her life to boost their TRP rating...
 
Posted by Deesha on Nov 14, 2009
Indeed what a pathetic sight it might be. Yes! we have seen mnay instances when the media has crossed its so callesd imaginary 'laxman rekha'. You guys out there are also humans. I mean there would be times when you witness terrible things; still keep on moving. No time to stop, puase and digest your latest encounter (just a minute back). Becasue there is something/someone else to be witnessed again... I wonder how the family would have felt? While facing the media glares; were they thinking about thier lost daughter or how to manifest thier grief to the whiole nation? Or what next?... No dearth to the range of questions they might be having in their minds; but all unanswered. Because right now they are busy answering to the various news channels rather than searching for thier own answers...
 
Posted by Ashish verma on Nov 13, 2009
I,d like to ask. Is there a way we can contribute to make this change in our society?
 
Posted by Sayeed on Nov 13, 2009
Uma, this article was very touching. There are certain sections of the media who get a bad name to it. My blood boils after reading such facts. Cant we control it? I mean, there has to be a way out and I feel we need to do something to put an end to it. Media Coverage is indeed a fascinating job for young professionals, that does not mean you cross the limits and behave inhuman. Uma, I congratulate you for bringing this matter to light. Its high time we act tough against this and behave like good humans.
 
Posted by Anirban on Nov 13, 2009
Press has to be free. With that kind of freedom comes responsibility.
 
Posted by ankush on Nov 13, 2009
Gr8 article
 
Posted by shuvam, bhubaneswar on Nov 13, 2009
it's really a true thing that u have mentioned..but what i want to say is this thing should also be a topic to be debated in all the news channels. when will u start this topic on air,,that will work in broader way to motivate and to open all catlike closed eyes.. i may not be using proper words..but i hope u understood what i want to say..i will ve very happy if u'll have a debate on this topic in ur channel..taking an initial step towards public awareness. thank u.
 
Posted by Kavita Rao Prasadh on Nov 13, 2009
Could not agree with you moree. Drawing the line between privacy and public information is where the media needs to drastically work on.
 
Posted by rahul on Nov 13, 2009
an experienced editor writing this kind of an article!!! quite surprising.... maturity with experience i guess...media people introspecting looks nice... indians are arguably the most shameless people when it comes to following rules and regulations and this is something we have to honestly accept. but when it comes to the media the behaviour of journalists all over the world remains the same... its really difficult to say whether it is right or wrong simply because of the fact that people watch whatever that is sensational... so everyone is to blame...all of us...we fuel the fire
 
Posted by nandakumar on Nov 13, 2009
writing an article like this does not, in any way, make one journalist different from the other. The author"s attempt to distinguish between jounalists does not wash since all act in the same manner ,based on their need for "breaking news". Why not u guys agree on a code. Freedom ,i am sure, does not mean insensitivity.
 
Posted by ela on Nov 13, 2009
Media is so powerful and independent to broadcast events that happen across the country within a fraction of seconds. Though it seems to be wonderful in providing news to the country, they should also have a thought about the emotions of the people involved in it. I really appreciate this article which has showed the highness of the media ignorance on such issues. Putting yourself in other shoes might give a solution to it , I feel.
 
Posted by Kumar on Nov 13, 2009
While agreeing to your views on being sensitive and human, are you trying to absolve yourself of any guilt ? If you follow what you just wrote...
 
Posted by anand on Nov 13, 2009
Am proud that a journalist from NDTV is brave enough to come forward and report on this. Otherwise this would be treated as any other news/headlines that hits everyday. My salutations to the author. I hope they come with the code of ethics for all journalists to behave, if not for celebrities atleast with the grieving families.
 
Posted by A VAZ on Nov 13, 2009
Uma has raised very poignantly and I do hope that it just does not become a guilt assuaging article for the industry. Some questions that journalist tend to ask people live on TV while going through personal tragedy and loss make me squirm. One cannot just say 'I report reality' In most cases, fiction leads to reality and media can be held responsible for putting a lot of crazy ideas in equally demented minds.The media is very important channel to shape humaneness in society. It must definitely develop a code of ethics and enforce it across all channels very stringently and sensitise public also. Why is it that we always give the biggest headlines to the most negative news and minimum to great human stories of honesty, triumph of justice, love, perseverance. Good begets good and bad begets bad. I am not saying bury our heads in the sand and ignore the rot but don't ignore the good and definitely don't brutalize society into insensitivity and cynicism. If that is the role of media, I would rather do without it. However, I know it is not and it can be the strongest and potentially the most potent pillar to galvanize the other pillars of society into action. Maybe a good number of the media organizations should be public trusts and kept away from profit driven businesses. One can't do away completely from bias and vested interests of few driving opinion of many but we can try and strike a balance with objective and sensitive media reporting and discourse
 
Posted by anil kumar balla on Nov 13, 2009
Girls in perticular,in the field of sports, are being meted out with ill treatment and the chances will be very bleak to come to the lime light, though talent/skill possess. Govt should keep a constant vigil on Sport Authority of AP and analise the conduct of SAP personnel in dealing with the girls. A report to this effect has to be sent to the top officials on weekly basis. Even the officers in SAP who are involving in this, also will get caught and should not be left scot free. By doing so, these sort of happenings could be averted.
 
Posted by Deepak on Nov 13, 2009
Nice to see some humanity still existing in the midst of all that's happening around these days. The role of the media does require serious and immediate introspection. Just the other day, the death of a 33 year old in Chandigarh due to the PM's visit was the big headline. There too, we had media covering the happenings, from as early as when the patient and family were in the car trying to get to the hospital. But instead of using their reach in a positive manner ( to somehow attempt to get the patient to the hospital), the media was busy capturing the feed and telecasting the helplessness of that family across the country. Difficult not to be cynical, what with the complete lack of respect for someone else's concerns.
 
Posted by amit tyagi on Nov 13, 2009
if our media do their job truly,i m sure graph of crime will fell down.Like in case of jessica lal and Nitish katara murder caseThis was the media by the help of which all the accused get punished otherwise all the accused was so much able that they can do whatever the justice they want. They can't do anything like to give bribe to police,judges,advocates or doctors, this was just beacause this case was hiked by media.
 
Posted by Manohar on Nov 13, 2009
Im impressed to see this post from a media person itself. My thinking is that will the camera man come & stand in fron of the same camera, if any of his family members are in any tragedy situation(molestation/rape,kidnap,police case,scam,prostitution etc). Some years back, for a famous female english singer, her tops suddently slipped during a live stage performance dance. Almost all media covered that, but to their maturity, all apologised immediately thro their channel for broadcasting it. Where is indian media standing in this scale? As given above, is there any LOC for the coverage level. Is their any sensor board for News/media?
 
 
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Uma Sudhir is Resident Editor with NDTV at Hyderabad. She has over 20 years experience in journalism, half of it in the print medium and the other half with the audio-visual medium. Her journey in television news began with the birth of India's first 24-hour news channel in 1998.
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