Opinion: My Wedding Was Perfect - And I Was Fat As Hell the Whole TimeLindy West | Wednesday July 22, 2015 As a fat woman, you are told to disguise, shrink or flatter your body. But I wasn't going to hide at my wedding - the older I get, the harder it is to depoliticise simple actsOpinion: My Country is a Racist Country - Built on the Lie of Freedom and OpportunityLindy West | Wednesday June 24, 2015 Endlessly contorting yourself to deny the mechanics of the world around you doesn't trick people into thinking you're not racist, says Lindy West.